A Little Space to Breathe, Heal & Find My Way Back

If you’ve noticed I’ve been a little quieter lately on all fronts - There’s a reason.

I recently lost a piece of myself, through losing my Pa. This was and still is a moment in time that has significantly shifted my perspective in ways I can’t quite explain. Grief has a way of slowing you down, making you question things, and reminding you that while work will always be there, time and the people we love are never guaranteed. 

Having the space to grieve is incredibly hard for anyone - including someone who is a small business owner. While grief has acted upon me, I haven’t stopped. The wheels have kept turning, the conversations have continued, and life in conveyancing and property certainly doesn’t pause for anyone. (As referenced in my first blog) 

Despite this though - I have taken a step back from the usual pace, including writing here, to give myself a little room to breathe.

Right now that space for me, looks like being in Bali.

Myself and Holly Quinlan of Renu Ballarat. Appreciating the fact we made the choice to reconnect.

A change of scenery, some distance from the everyday, and a little soul searching.

Less noise, more listening. 

Less rushing, more being present.

I’ve been leaning into the things that help me feel grounded again: sauna sessions, cold plunges, exercise, sound healing, meditation and yoga. Finding moments of stillness, moving my body, clearing my head and allowing myself the space to feel whatever comes up.

There’s no magic formula for grief, and I don’t think healing is something you can put a timeline on. Sometimes you just need to meet yourself where you are and trust that there’s a reason for that season. I know little by little, I am finding my feet again. I mean I felt so empowered to write this blog post after an hour meditation and now as I write this the tears somewhat flow - but hey, that’s what it’s like to be human. 

For me, this isn’t about disappearing or pressing pause on my career. It’s about returning to myself with more clarity and energy, to continue to ensure I show up as my best self - for our clients, my team, family, friends - everything.

With that all being said though - let’s chat the question on everyone’s mind. 

What is happening in the Property market?

Interestingly, even over here, I’m still getting questioned by the people I’m interacting with, about my role and my thoughts on the market. And my honest answer has been, I don’t know and plenty are in the same boat.

From looking about online: 

• Domain have released that house prices fell in every capital city in the September quarter, this being the first time in 15 years

• Talks of a 5th rate rise is on the table

• NAB having released to cut jobs before Christmas 

It looks and sounds bleak. Guess it depends what take you have on it, because there’s also the following happening:

• First home buyer loans are up, since the introduction of the 5% deposit scheme 

• There’s stock on the market, creating better purchaser conditions 

• Victoria auctions as of 1 October, must disclose the reserve price 7 days prior to 

Even off a few short points, there’s still a lot to weigh up. The landscape is shifting, sentiment is being tested, and I think anyone claiming to have all the answers right now, may not be as confident as they seem. 

But don’t mistake my quieter period for a lack of interest. There will always be a market to follow and watch - that’s what keeps the fire in my belly. No two seasons are the same in the Property. Whether we are talking the market of regional or metro, to even - investor, vendor or purchaser landscapes.  

However for now, (or until Friday this week) I’m giving myself permission to slow down, and ponder the big questions. I invite you to as well - even if this resonates with you from another level and not one that is looking for property advice. 

I’ll be back here sharing thoughts, insights and honest conversations about property soon. 

Until then, a little reminder — sometimes the most productive thing you can do is take a breath, look up and give yourself the space to come back to yourself. 

I’ve been looking up a lot lately, it happens to always be for you Pa - until we meet again. With all my love, your girl. x 

In loving memory of Mick Clover